Wow Jay - John and I couldnt believe it .. we thought you were great, but you did what you do so well. Charming at first, all the roses, jewelery, nice restaurants, limos for the family and friends for Gingers bday, always at the airport when she traveled, little nice gestures, cooking great romantic dinners the love letters, nice hotels, trips and undivided attention, always hugging her ... on and on .. so many pictures (2 years worth) of total bliss and happiness.

I was charmed but my sister suspected you had issues, 3 prior relationships, all with the same pattern (charming them all with the same MO then when things got rough you would leave one and go straight to another - lying to the new girl about the old one). You had no friends of your own so you needed hers. We accepted you but you seemed way to immature and insecure for Ginger, always trying to be good enough for her, working out all the time, going to get your fake tan. Too bad so sad .. you are truly a lost soul. Never being yourself but being what you think the woman for the moment wanted.

She lost herself when she moved to Seattle with you and we all hate that it happend, and she truly hit rock bottom when you told her you were divorcing her, but she should be proud, she picked herself up and she continues to successfully support herself and raise her daughter full time (something you cant accomplish because you cant be alone and dont even want your own kids unless you have someone to help raise them).

I am glad Ginger is vowing to close this chapter in her life, she gave me this link vowing to never look at it again. I hope she can - she has so much more than you ever will.